1.) don't compliment the interviewer's appearance in any way don’t say: “i love your skirt!” what to say instead: “i enjoyed reading about your corporate achievements in the paper last month.” 2.) don’t cry don’t say: “it was the hardest thing i ever went through, and i still break down just thinking about it.” what to say instead: “it was difficult, but we pulled through.” 3.) don't talk about illnesses unless they’re relevant don’t say: “my back is killing me, and this time of year is rough on my asthma.” what to say instead: “during the gap in my resume, i was recuperating from surgery, and it hasn’t been a problem since.” 4.) don’t talk about problems at a previous company unless it’s to show how you persevered don’t say: “i had so many problems with my former boss; he was a constant headache.” what to say instead: “i dealt with several problems, but worked through them all successfully.” 5.) don’t force rapport don’t say: “i see you have kids. i love kids!” what to say instead: “your offices are great. how long has your company been at this location?” 6.) have no questions don’t say: “nope. i think you went over everything. see you later!” what to say instead: “i noticed that your company has won several awards. what do you think gives you that competitive edge?” 7.) don’t say you were fired don’t say: “at my last job, i got canned.” what to say instead: “it wasn’t a good fit at my last job, but i learned a lot about my skills and abilities and what i want to bring to my next position.”